tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5550366755739030799.post2857699240650304992..comments2023-11-05T06:57:11.157-05:00Comments on Not The Path I Chose: Showers & CookiesPhotogrlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13709453130822429881noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5550366755739030799.post-74812323755618589542008-07-31T00:33:00.000-04:002008-07-31T00:33:00.000-04:00I feel for you. I know I am not in the same situat...I feel for you. I know I am not in the same situation (anymore) but I wanted to let you know I remember like it was yesterday how it can all really suck... the questions, TTC, all of SIF.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there as best you can, and I'm glad you have your sister's wedding to look forward to. Did you recently lose your mom?tonyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16833358728527455795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5550366755739030799.post-14875571094861007012008-07-30T13:52:00.000-04:002008-07-30T13:52:00.000-04:00I think you answered as well as you could, without...I think you answered as well as you could, without being rude. If you say "we're trying" then you just open yourself up to inane advice, and more invasive questions.<BR/>Thatt's really sweet of you to make all those cookies for your sister's wedding. I'm so sorry that your mom won't be there.J Sweethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17662253403116052079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5550366755739030799.post-61620426246030857322008-07-30T09:57:00.000-04:002008-07-30T09:57:00.000-04:00Sorry you had such a rough day. I came up with a ...Sorry you had such a rough day. I came up with a few response that I use in this type of situation, in case you're interested ...<BR/><BR/>~~~<BR/><BR/>They say: "Hey, when are you going to have another kid? What are you waiting for?"<BR/><BR/>I say: "Wow, wouldn't it be wonderful if it were that easy?"<BR/><BR/>~~~<BR/><BR/>To be honest, I haven't had to use that line in what feels like years. Once I use it, I don't get that question again from the same people.Heather J. @ TLC Book Tourshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10474181812740579350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5550366755739030799.post-87237919958776292572008-07-29T22:32:00.000-04:002008-07-29T22:32:00.000-04:00Thanks for your comment. I'm sorry you were put on...Thanks for your comment. I'm sorry you were put on the spot too. It sucks that first we go through all of this struggle to have a baby, and then people ask these personal questions without realizing how painful it is. I too wish I had the courage to be more honest with my answers.<BR/><BR/>I wish I could say out loud, I am a mother of four...It makes me sad that I feel like I have to hide my other babies.<BR/><BR/>wishing you all the best and more babies ((hug))Anniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08589450319640171616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5550366755739030799.post-19428104640191021632008-07-29T21:33:00.000-04:002008-07-29T21:33:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry you were put on the spot at that show...I'm so sorry you were put on the spot at that shower. I would have been so p*ssed, especially since it was uncomfortable in the first place! I hate those things too. Another blogger I read posted about this just yesterday, and she has also miscarried quite a bit... www.railyuh.blogspot.com<BR/><BR/>*hugs*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com